How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What would happen if the Soviet Union had simply annexed Manchuria after World War 2 or kept it independent as a puppet state allied them and separate from China as China was too weak too oppose it anyway?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Can a 40-year-old date a 20-year-old?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Is it okay for a wife who comes home from a date to tell her husband what she did?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Since the Brits can't steer their oil tanker, what makes them think they can take on Russia?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

How would you feel about your husband allowing a mutual friend to see you naked and exposed to show off your pussy?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Have you ever witnessed a remote beach show where hundreds of turtles crawling to the water?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What will the legacy of Jimmy Carter be in light of his death today at 100?

That's it for today.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

What do you love to do at night when you’re alone?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What are some common examples of condescending behavior?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What's your photograph of the day 1097?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?